How to Overcome Failures

Hi Lovelies!

Ah, I love this topic. I know, this is very weird to say- but I am a BIG believer that every failure you have is a lesson you were meant to learn. Your failure does not define you, it helps you grow into the person you are meant to be.

It took me a long journey to get to this point. Like many of you, we go through our own ebbs and flows, and for me personally, I struggled with many failures: job- getting fired from a job/ laid off, relationships- both with friendships and with boyfriends, failing my real estate exam, and my list goes on. Those moments as tough as it was during those times, all taught me wonderful lessons about myself. Such as, for relationships, I realized I am a giver and I did not put boundaries up in toxic relationships. It is important to practice self-love here and make sure you know what you will put up with and what you won’t. Usually, your gut will give you a sign if something is unsettling or if someone is not good for you, I like to think of these as love notes from God. Another lesson that I gained is to look at both point of views, not just my own because this will help give you a new perspective and allow you to grow into a better version of you.

One thing I know for sure is that God knows who belongs in your life and who doesn’t. This was my biggest takeaway from relationships, I learned to just let go and let not to block my blessings.

For job situations and finances, the lessons I learned is that jobs will always come and go, spend time finding your purpose. When you are doing what you are passionate about, everything will be aligned, and the money will be coming in.

Failure will allow you to learn the lessons that will empower you to become the best version of yourself, you just have to allow yourself to change your perspective.

I hope this helps you and gives you the encouragement to invest in yourself! 😊

XO, Kit